Decease… Death… Die…

Life consists of little things that fill it with such beauty and tenderness that it takes your breath away. For those who have grown up, but have not forgotten how to be surprised, that is, those girls and boys who still hang tangerines on the Christmas tree and make happiness as a wish, and not “Porsche”, this is close and understandable. Because it works. And also – it always gives hope.

If one day you stop and allow yourself to get off the mad carousel of the adult moon park, you can be very surprised to realize how much beauty there is in the moment here and now. A moment that requires nothing from you except the desire to be in it.

It is necessary to gratefully accept every moment and see in it either a lesson, or a gift, or an invitation to an adventure. Trying your feet on the footprints of people who inspire, and more and more clearly realize that happiness begins in the head: when you stop judging, condemning, whining, being nervous.

It seems that there are people who float through life, not noticing obstacles and hardships. In the most difficult times, they remain calm, they stop to smell the roses and drink from a half full glass.

They may not have many reasons for joy (those that most of us imagine), but there is a simplicity in their life – that is what lies behind their happiness. What can you do to learn how to maintain this amazing sense of joy in life?

Don’t be discouraged if you don’t get what you want and don’t be fooled into hoping to get the most out of every situation. Approach everything pragmatically, hoping for the best but preparing for the worst. Don’t devote your life to the constant pursuit of impossible perfection. Don’t live in a state of lack, lamenting that you are missing what you want. Happiness is based on a sense of satisfaction. Those who do not know how to stop and evaluate what they already have will never experience true satisfaction.

One can argue for a long time about whether money can really buy happiness. Unlikely. Today, every day there is something new that can be bought and it will never be possible to achieve true satisfaction. Few people on earth will say that they have enough money.

Don’t think too much about the little things and don’t waste time worrying about things that don’t really matter. Don’t let negative thoughts take energy from you and distract you from all the beautiful things you have. Life is too short to worry. Be independent and take care of yourself. Understand that you are the only person in the world who can put your needs first. Then meet the needs of others.

Smell what the jasmine bush smells like in the yard in the evening. Hear how the snow creaks underfoot in winter or how the autumn leaves rustle in the park. Stop for a second and look at the clouds floating in the sky. Learn to create moments of serenity for yourself. Greet the cashier in the store, compliment a colleague, chat with a stranger in line. Don’t overlook the little things in life that play a very important role in your happiness.

Don’t be afraid of change and always make the most of new circumstances, good or bad. Learn to maintain balance even when the situation or people try to pressure you. Always be ready for change. Try something new: new tastes, new smells, new music, a new place to walk, new dishes … Diversify your life. And also – do not rush unnecessarily. Work on your own schedule as much as you can and maneuver through life at your own relaxing pace.

Don’t get stuck in one point of view, be flexible. The loss can lead to a new opportunity. If you have fallen to the very bottom, you have one way – up. The constant pursuit of knowledge will help you maintain inspiration and zest for life. Appreciate information and strive to learn as much as possible. Constant self-improvement is the key to moving towards success. Whatever you do, take pride in being better and better – from social interaction to everyday tasks. Your desire for the best will materialize over time and you will see clear results.

Do not get carried away with a deep analysis of all situations, do not complicate them, do not be offended by stupid words or actions of other people. Learn to laugh at your own mistakes and misfortunes. Do not think about what will happen tomorrow and do not lament about what happened yesterday. Every day is a new opportunity, a new chapter. Live in the present and get the most out of every moment of your life.

Say yes when you feel like you want to do what is asked of you (or you feel like doing it). Say no when your inner voice is struggling. Appreciate your time and your boundaries, but remember that new opportunities can be hidden everywhere.

Self-reflect, learn to find the balance of your state of mind. If something bothers you, understand the reason and get rid of the anxiety.
The main philosophy that happy people adhere to is that life is too short to get upset over little things, take everything for granted, and strive for unattainable perfection.